Is there anyone else out there who has a fairly tight quincunx or semisextile in their natal, and who finds that this gives complex synastry prospects where you feel you can't ever have it perfect?... especially if the quincunx or semisextile involves personal planets...Like for example, girl has Venus at 29 Sagittarius quincunx Moon at 29 Cancer (which is semisextile saturn at 0 degrees Virgo) and meets guy with his Mars at 29 Aries square her Moon but trine her Venus, his Sun at 29 Sag quincunx her Moon but conjunct her Venus, and his Moon at 28 Scorpio trine her Moon but square her Saturn (out of sign).
Or someone who has Sun at 15 degrees Libra and moon at 16 degrees Virgo. In synastry a person with planets in mid Gemini or Sag will make soft aspects to the Sun but hard aspects to the Moon. Conversely, planets in mid Capricorn or Cancer will make hard aspects the Sun but soft aspects to the moon...
If you have natal quincunxes or semisextiles there's always difficulty mixed in with the harmony in synastry. It's always good/bad, not one way or the other.
I'd like to hear from anyone out there whose had this type of synastry. Either as the person with the quincunx or semisextile natally, or as the person who had synastry with someone who had one of these aspects. How did it play out... was there any type of resolution.
My quincunx and I are in it for life, so I'm trying to look on the bright side.